Finger Bowl

I was the “new” girl at Hutchison.  It was a moniker that stayed with me until graduation. I entered in seventh grade whereas so many of the girls had started together in kindergarten.  They formed an impenetrable group fondly known as the Twelve Year Club.

One of my new friends invited me to go with her family to Florida for spring break. Before I was allowed to go I had to meet her parents. This was quite intimidating as they lived in some huge mansion in the fancy old part of town.  They made it quite clear that I had to audition for a spot on the  traveling squad.

I was pretty wowed by the stately old antebellum home in the historic    Garden District.   I was just a simple middle class girl who wanted to fit in.  I didn’t even know how to pretend to fit into this world of eleven foot ceilings, maids in proper uniforms and formal seated dinners.  I got a little tripped up when the maid walked around the table with each serving dish, displaying it to our side.  Was I supposed to grab the spoon and dish out the mashed potatoes myself or would she do it for me?  I think I held my own until confronted with a small bowl of warm water.  What the hell was it?  I stared at it for a couple seconds too long.  I looked around to see what everyone else was doing.  They were sticking their fingers in it.  Go figure.  I did the same.

I thought I had performed reasonably well but I didn’t get a call back.  Oh well.  This was going to be harder than I thought.  Going to a new school is never easy.  Falling into an alien universe is just plain impossible.

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3 thoughts on “Finger Bowl

  1. I know how you feel. When I moved in with Allin, he said you need to learn how to play golf, so we can play together. So, I took a few lessons with Marci, the ladies Pro. After a few lessons she was all, you have to play with the Niners. So, one evening we called the “head” of Niners and asked if I could play. Nope! You are not married and just a girlfriend. Then I got engaged to Allin and showed a girl my ring. She said, love the ring, call us when you get married to him and we would love for you to play with us. By the time all of this went in life, I was a 20 handicap and played with 18 holers…..

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    • Karen, I am wetting my pants. The nine hole person was me. The club had just had a big to do about this live in girlfriend who was using the club. I was just towing the party line. How funny.

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  2. This was not meant to offend anyone. Just my memory from 44 years ago. It’s funny now to look back on it. Rick and I recently sold all of our wedding china and family silver. We are casual to the bone.

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